Trusting the Wisdom of the Group: Skylar’s Volunteer Story

Volunteers are essential to Parents Helping Parents (PHP) programs, helping create welcoming spaces where parents and caregivers can talk openly, connect with others, and feel supported. For people who are passionate about supporting parents, volunteering with PHP can also be a meaningful opportunity to listen, learn, and make a difference.

Skylar found that opportunity through facilitating PHP’s virtual support groups. As a yoga teacher and doula, Skylar knew how much she valued working with parents. PHP felt like a natural fit.

Creating Space for Parents to Support One Another

For the past seven months, Skylar has helped create a welcoming, confidential space where parents and caregivers can talk openly about the challenges they are facing. As a volunteer facilitator, she guides conversations, encourages participation, and helps group members recognize the insight and support they can offer one another.

Hearing how participants have used tools shared during the group to make positive changes in their lives continues to inspire her.

“Hearing from participants that they’ve experienced positive changes in their lives because of tools they’ve learned in the support group is what keeps me so excited to volunteer,” Skylar shared.

Learning Alongside Group Participants

Skylar has found that the learning goes both ways. She leaves each group session feeling that she has gained just as much as the parents and caregivers who participate.

One parent recently told Skylar that they had been feeling “off” and eventually realized it was because they had missed the support group for a few weeks. For Skylar, the comment showed how meaningful a consistent source of connection and support can be.

Trusting the Wisdom of the Group

When she first began volunteering, Skylar worried that she would need to have all the answers. She quickly discovered that the facilitator’s role is not to solve every problem. It is to encourage a thoughtful, supportive conversation where participants can share their experiences and learn from one another.

“I would tell a new volunteer to never underestimate the wisdom of the group,” Skylar said. “The participants are so ready and willing to support each other. Encourage your group members, and remind them that their insights are what make the group valuable.”

Outside of volunteering, Skylar loves languages. She speaks Spanish and is currently learning Irish and American Sign Language.

Make a Difference for Families

PHP volunteers help ensure that parents and caregivers have a safe place to turn when they need understanding, encouragement, and connection. By volunteering virtually, you can make a meaningful difference for parents and help strengthen the families and children who rely on them. Your time and support can help a parent feel less alone and better prepared to face the challenges ahead.